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A BDSM contract that
fits your relationship.

Build a fully custom contract with your names, your roles, and clauses tailored to what you have actually negotiated. 14 templates, 6 premium styles, every section customizable.

Choose your look

Your contract should look the way your dynamic feels. Pick a style that fits your personality, from clean and minimal to ornate and dramatic.

Why put it in writing

Most people in BDSM have had the limits conversation. But it usually happens in pieces: over text, in bed, or mid-scene when someone realizes they forgot to mention something. A contract gives that conversation structure. It makes sure you sit down and cover everything, not just the parts that come up naturally.

There is also the stuff people skip because it feels awkward. What happens after a scene? What does aftercare look like for each of you? What if one person wants to end the dynamic entirely? A contract puts those questions in front of you and says: talk about this now, before it matters.

Filling out a contract together, section by section, across the table from each other, is one of the most intimate things you can do in a dynamic.

It forces honesty. It creates space for vulnerability. And when you both sign it, there is a weight to that moment. Not legal weight. A BDSM contract is not legally binding, and consent can always be withdrawn. But it becomes a ritual object. A physical thing that represents what you are to each other.

A woman fastens a leather collar on her partner, who tilts her head back with eyes closed, in warm candlelight.

Contracts by dynamic

Every dynamic is different. These templates are written for specific relationship structures, with clauses, language, and sections that actually apply to how you practice.

Ready to start?

Pick a template, customize every clause, and have your contract ready in minutes.

This is a symbolic document, not a legally binding contract. Consent can be withdrawn at any time by either party. This does not replace ongoing communication between partners.