Paddle
A paddle is a flat, broad impact play implement designed for striking, most commonly on the buttocks. Paddles distribute force across a wider area than canes, crops, or single-tail whips, producing more "thud" and less concentrated sting. They are one of the most popular impact tools because they are intuitive to use and available in a wide range of intensities.
Materials and Characteristics
Wood paddles are rigid and deliver sharp, deep thud. Hardwoods like maple and walnut transfer more force than softer woods like pine. Holes drilled through a wood paddle reduce air resistance, increasing speed and sting while decreasing thud. A solid wood paddle without holes is the classic choice for heavy impact.
Leather paddles range from thin and flexible to thick and stiff. Flexible leather paddles feel closer to a firm spanking and are good for warm-up or lighter play. Stiff leather approaches the sensation of wood but with slightly more give on contact.
Silicone paddles are non-porous, easy to clean, and deliver a unique "slappy" sting. They are practical for scenes where hygiene matters and hold up well over time.
Technique
Paddles are more forgiving of aim than narrow implements like canes because the broad striking surface means slight misaim still contacts a safe target area. That said, technique still matters. Swing from the wrist or elbow for control, not the shoulder. Let the paddle do the work. Start lighter than you think necessary and build gradually.
Always warm up the skin with lighter strikes or hand spanking before using a paddle at full intensity. Cold skin bruises faster and tolerates less impact.
Safety
Target the fleshy center of the buttocks. Avoid the tailbone, hip bones, spine, and lower back where the kidneys sit. The upper thighs are a secondary target but require more caution due to thinner tissue. Check in frequently, especially with heavier paddles. For a complete breakdown of paddling technique, see our paddling guide. Compare with the flogger for a different style of impact.